Category: Singles Spit Swap
Yes I am single and i am in search of that special one person that knows how to give and recieve true love i am an out going person that likes to have a great time i want some one who is nice and respectful honest and trust worthy someone who i can shere my secrets with. you can feel free to post your comment if you would like.
This may not be the best place to look for this sort of thing but I can't deny that I'm also hoping to find something like that. I'm not actually looking but we'll see what happens I guess.
not a good idea to look for love online. But thats just my opinion. Hope u find someone.
I generally agree. I'm pretty picky about my prospective partner, in terms of personality if not appearance. And someone online can seem to meet those requirements but then you meet them face to face or even just start talking on the phone and let's just say they often turn out to be totally other than how they represent themselves. Not to say you couldn't theoretically find someone but it's probably highly unlikely.
People are people. Offline or on.
True. But online they might portray themselves as other than they really are.
Actually, I have to disagree with you a little there. I am happily engaged for nearly 2 years, and I met my Fiance online about 4 years ago. Yes true there's the ocasional person who does act differently online than off, but in my view if they do then it's there problem. I took a hug risk going to Denmark to meet my partner, and I was scared, but had to take the risk, and in the end, I was lucky, and am now very happy. Hoping to get married in maybe 2011. Take care, and good luck. Hope you find your love.
I'm not saying it CAN'T work out. I'm just saying that often someone will misrepresent themself online to get what they want. I'm the type of person that what you see, for lack of a better term, is what you get. But not everyone is. And because of this I'm extremely particular about what I look for in a prospective partner as far as personality.
people can portray them selves fake offline too.
ditto to the last poster; I agree completely.
That's very true. First time you meet that come off as one way, then you get to know them and they turn into something totally other. But it's especially easy to do this when it's just online, especially if one of the parties involved is blind.
Anyone truly looking for real love with any longevity will not portray themselves any differently online or off, because to do so would only serve to thwart the aforementioned endeavor. If I am truly seeking an honest relationship with someone, and I am trying to experience true love, then to act as anything other than myself simply decreases my chances of reaching that goal, not to mention the potential to cost me the opportunity of having met the person that would have been the love of my life.